Sunday, December 24, 2006

Merry Christmas!

It's Christmas Eve, hard to believe it's already here, and I'm finally getting caught up on my blog reading, knitting, house cleaning, baking, etc.

I'm enjoying reading about Christmas traditions and plans from all my fellow bloggers, which is one way to vicariously live the holiday through other people's eyes. See, my family doesn't really have any big deal holiday traditions, for a number of reasons.

First, my father, and all my uncles, all worked for the airline industry. That meant that Christmas dinner was usually a buffet style affair where you grabbed a plate and ate whenever you could. Every one of them worked Christmas day. I don't think my Dad actually had Christmas off until he had over 25 years in, and then he always volunteered to work it so the guys with little kids (I was past college by this time) could enjoy it.

I guess the second reason we don't have a lot of traditions is that Mr. Bluebird and I both come from small families. I'm an only child, he has one (estranged, slightly wacko) sister, and a half sister who's quite a bit older. There are, outside of my cousins' kids, no children in the family. Like my family, he moved a bit as a child (including overseas) so having grandmas and grandpas around for thie holidays was a rarity.

That being said, we tend to do our own traditions which might seem strange to some people, but when you have a houseful of two or three people, you can do what you want.

Like make all day spaghetti sauce and invite your Jewish friends over for a spaghetti Christmas dinner.

My mother thought it was horrible that we didn't do a turkey that year. But really, why bother with a big bird when it's only a handful of folks and you really like Italian food?

Last year we invited all my friends and fellow teachers who had spouses deployed and who had no family in the area over. We had a blast! This just proved the point that you can chose your friends but not your relatives. If I had had some of my crazy, dysfunctional relatives over (instead of good friends) I probably would have been found behind the tree getting plowed on Jack Daniels.

Tonight we're going over to Mr. and Mrs. Littlebird's house for our monthly dinner and game night with a little foray out to look at Christmas lights. The Prodigal Daughter (their daughter who we would keep as our own) will be home from college, although Mr. Littlebird is overseas again this holiday. Tomorrow Papa Bird will drive up for Christmas dinner and most likely will stay for a few days. I'll be cooking Christmas dinner.

I'm making lasagne.

Merry Christmas everyone!


Mrs. T said...

Merry Christmas to you! I think the all day spaghetti affair sounds much better than getting together with my husband's family at this point. It's really about sharing the joy of the season with those you love- family or not.

CaliforniaTeacherGuy said...

It's good to see that not everyone conforms to some supposed "norm" for celebrating the season. Lasagne for the great feast sounds just fine to me. Have a great Christmas Day!

Princess Lionhead said...

Sounds like you've a pleasant one so far. Have a great one tomorrow. It's been fun with Mason this year, as I'm sure you've read in my blog. Happy Holidays!

CaliforniaTeacherGuy said...

Yum! That cyber-lasagne sure is tasty!


HappyChyck said...

I love hearing how others also celebrate in nontraditional ways. We also had pasta, and then we ate my husband's favorite kind of cake--angel food--to celebrate his birthday, which is also on Christmas. Everyone was content, and we laughed a lot. Bliss!